It’s Officially A New Year 2020

Shayla Bobala

It’s time to get started on all those goals and planning you have been doing. I know for myself I have a lot to do. But make sure to take it one step at a time. Don’t do 20 goals at once because that won’t really be proactive. They will get in the way of each other. This year I’m starting with preloading and delegating. I want to be able to make more content but still be able to spend lots of time with my partner, friends and cats. I am going to preload content before this year begins and make sure that I post content in a routine. You will have to come check out my YouTube channel Shaylabobala. My other channels will be spontaneously done until I get to 10,000 Subscribers on each then there will be regular content on their almost daily. My priority lies with the channel I’ve invested the most time in and have done 1110 Videos on in the last 4 years. I am truly excited to see the sponsors that will come to me in the following year. As well as the opportunities. I’m always looking for people to collaborate with who are genuinely looking to build a community and make a living through honesty on the platform. A lot of times people think there is not a lot of work that goes into it but you would be surprised. I also want to create things and courses to sell on my website here, so that is coming. I would love to have the opportunity to travel and work with brands to model more clothing in photo shoots. I would love to get on PR lists and review more makeup as well. Being able to be financially free, buy a home again and buy a vehicle again would be spectacularly good this year but that’s just the beginning of a better life. Most of all I would like to really bond with my soulmate this year and get married. Thank you all I am so excited for this year. truly Shayla Ps some goals I have kept silent so keep reading to find out more

Forgiveness

Shayla Bobala

What I’ve learned is it’s taken for granted the most. People will apologize and then do it again without ever being conscious about it. It can be utterly exhausting you have to know when to quit. I have had a lot of narcissistic people in my life who who have taken advantage of my kindness and I have learned how to know who is worthy of forgiveness. I have moved away from my original birth city Saskatoon. I honestly think it was the best decision. I haven’t been back for 2 years. There is a reason for it. I don’t want to run into people who expect easy forgiveness and don’t give it in return. Grudges are nasty and things don’t get fixed easily when everything you do is being watched and criticized. If any of those people read this. I forgive you and I have moved on that’s why I am not back there that’s my old life. Xoxo ShaylaBobala

The Grind 2019 Schedule

Shayla Bobala

When I started this year I made a plan for growth. It said how long I would spend on each platform, what I would do and I gathered that I would do it until I became a routine. Some things stuck to me such as marking sure to stay active on Pinterest and makeing sure to update Snapchat and my YouTube stories. I really enjoyed posting more to the community page as well as I got Facebook near the end of year. I decided that although it’s the oldest of the platforms it’s the easiest to reach people on. I am planning to make a schedule again and I’m curious what are your struggles in making a daily routine. Do you also struggle doing things repetitively? I look forward to hearing from you Xoxo ShaylaBobala

My Go To Shower Supplies

Shayla Bobala

I love Dove Bar and liquid soap. I also love dove Shampoo and conditioner. I like to use Kirkland Shampoo and conditioner because it has no additives. I use the gold mask by Peter Thomas Roth. I also use Intuition Leg and body Shaver. I use Blonde Brilliance for my hair to get out brassy tones. I also sometimes use Bed Head Tigi Fully Loaded. I use Vagisal extra sensitive for bad days or period days. I use Oral B Spinbrush for my teeth. That’s my complete shower guide Xoxo ShaylaBobala

Shoutouts to My favourite Instagram Peeps

Shayla Bobala

My first one inspired me from being a professional bodybuilder and her handle is @karly.ar but her full name is Karly Renman. She does pole dancing competitions, bodybuilding and she also owns her own gym with her partner. She is a real role model and mentor to me. This next girl has changed her life completely this last year her handle is @katefert. That’s also her name she moved from Kelowna and I have been watching her weight loss transformation and I’m super impressed. She inspires me through her fashion and body positivity posts. This next girl is a model who really inspires me by her gorgeous body as well as her body positive attitude and I love her confidence. She has a carefree attitude. Her handle is @Jessicacakes2 and her name is Jessica Weaver. Those are the ones I follow regularly the rest are YouTubers. Xoxo ShaylaBobala

The 8 Income Streams

Shayla Bobala

There are so many ways to make money but these are some you may not have thought of before. It’s important to remember that you can make a living from more than just working a typical 9 – 5 job working minimum wage. 1) There is passive income where you make a video or a blog post and you continue to make ad revenue and sponsorships off your previous works also writing a ebook is considered passive income because you don’t have to do anything but watch the sales come in. Movies and films too because they bring in revenue without having to do more work. 2) Working a commission job in sales either online or in person. It takes a lot of work because you have to follow up with people and you get rejected a lot. I really think the best commission job is being a real estate agent. 3) Then there is profit income from buying and then selling them for more than you paid. 4) There is interest income from lending money. 5) There is Dividend income from owning stocks and having growth but it’s a gamble. 6) You can make royalties by letting others use your music or films in theirs. 7) There are also Capital gains when your assets like a home, vehicle or property goes up in value and helps increase your net worth. The value of everything you own. 8) There is Rental Income from renting out your property or an apartment building. Xoxo ShaylaBobala

How To Speak In Public Comfortably &...

Shayla Bobala

Sometimes it can be really nerve racking to speak in public about something your really passionate for fear or being laughed at or not being agreed with, but honestly everyone is nervous they just know how to curve it with excitedly knowing that it will help them to be able to grow and do it more often. It’s just like a competition the first time is scary but it will get easier. When I use to speak publicly I would make sure to look at the wall or something that is not the direct audience so I’m not aware of how many people are in the room. I also would think about a specific word so that it would limit the noise in the room. One of my biggest tips is being able to know that your only going to be up there temporarily and that people will believe what they want to believe. It is not your job to change their minds. Focus on the positive reason for what you are doing. Obviously there are so many reasons that you could be doing public speaking but just remember to speak clearly and at a moderate pace. No one is judging you unless it’s an actual public speaking contest. If that case make sure to rehearse it over and over in front of the mirror until it’s memorized. I believe that all great leaders are taught to become great speakers. Things take time and practice. Rome wasn’t built in a day. Make sure to be confident and go and have a blast. Xoxo ShaylaBobala

20 Self Care Ideas

Shayla Bobala

1) Take a Bath with bubbles and Champagne 2) Do Yoga with Calming Music 3) Meditate on good things you want in the future 4) Go watch the stars outside 5) Start A Blog and journal daily 6) Binge Watch Netflix 7) Setup a Christmas Tree 8) Play with your Dog or Cat 9) Dance to Your Favourite Songs 10) Make a TikTok that makes you laugh 11) Take Yourself on a Date to your favourite restaurant 12) Organize your Bathroom 13) Give Yourself a Pedicure 14) Put a hair mask in & a face mask 15) Write a Book 16) Listen to an audiobook 17) Workout using Hiit 18) Give yourself a massage 19) Make yourself some Hot Chocolate 20) Go Swimming Xoxo ShaylaBobala

It’s Okay To Say No

Shayla Bobala

Saying no is important when respecting yourself and others. I used to say yes to everything which led to resentment and anger held to the other person because I blamed them for asking me to do things I don’t want to do and I felt obligated to go and do them. You only owe yourself anything. You don’t owe anyone for anything. You have to put yourself first and realize that sacrificing your health, money, mental health is not worth it. Just remember this when your feeling blue when you say no it’s better there angry for a night if it means peace within you. It’s one of the most valuable things my counselling taught me. Xoxo ShaylaBobala

Be Honest With Yourself

Shayla Bobala

Do you ever tell yourself lies to keep yourself feeling good about what your doing. Do you find yourself convincing yourself that where you are in life is fine. You need to be honest about what it is your really want in life and what’s going to fulfill your true purpose. If that means 10 years to become a doctor or if it means that you want to create a channel with meaning and purpose and sell things. Whatever it is. You can do it anytime. No one knows how much time they have left and yet we all keep going. It’s all about working towards what you want while appreciating what you have in the process. I honestly can say that I’m happy with my job. It brings me more satisfaction everyday. If someday it doesn’t then I would re-evaluate my purpose and do something different don’t be afraid to re-evaluate your life to make yourself happy. Xoxo ShaylaBobala

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