Why I Chased My Youtube Dream ?

Shayla Bobala

I chased my youtube dream because I did not like being forced to work 8 hours continuous in uncomfortable clothing. I did not like not being able to take breaks and I wanted to be able have pets and be home with them. I also wanted to be able to have the freedom to to create what I wanted when I wanted to. I always suggest having a backup job when starting. Being broke is not fun. But being broke when your young is normal so work your way up into management and then quit your job to follow your dream once you made it into a full time career and I promise you won’t regret your experience you will have gained. I have more life experiences that have taught me hard lessons. Be your own person and never give up Xoxo ShaylaBobala

Which Should you Purchase Ninja or Vitamix...

Shayla Bobala

The answer is more in affordability the vitamix is the best with the silicone lid and the hole in the middle for easy stirring as well as advanced features for all types of things like soup, smoothies, crushing, slushes and more. The cost is $500 but it’s high quality so it will last a long time. The Ninja Blender is affordable at $100 but it will be very cheap and plastic lids I have already had trouble with mine being stubborn. It’s also not very easy to clean. It’s very loud as well which is why I don’t use it often. I’m going to be upgrading to a Vitamix this year for sure I’m sick of working with my stubborn Ninja Blender. But not everyone can afford the best of everything which is why it’s a good starter blender. Xoxo ShaylaBobala

Shoutouts to My favourite Instagram Peeps

Shayla Bobala

My first one inspired me from being a professional bodybuilder and her handle is @karly.ar but her full name is Karly Renman. She does pole dancing competitions, bodybuilding and she also owns her own gym with her partner. She is a real role model and mentor to me. This next girl has changed her life completely this last year her handle is @katefert. That’s also her name she moved from Kelowna and I have been watching her weight loss transformation and I’m super impressed. She inspires me through her fashion and body positivity posts. This next girl is a model who really inspires me by her gorgeous body as well as her body positive attitude and I love her confidence. She has a carefree attitude. Her handle is @Jessicacakes2 and her name is Jessica Weaver. Those are the ones I follow regularly the rest are YouTubers. Xoxo ShaylaBobala

The Importance of Music

Shayla Bobala

Music has impacted my life so greatly. Whether it’s good oldies that sing about true love and heartbreak or just a good old musical I truly use music to express how I feel. I feel it’s so much easier to connect with others through music. It’s like the musician speaks for you. I was bullied a lot in Highschool and I had an iPod when they first where launched. I literally always had one ear in all the time and would walk around with music in my ear to avoid socializing. I really enjoyed jamming out. If the bullies would get bad enough I would go into the bathroom and listen to music in there. I think the music kept me alive through those years. I also remember using music to help me get ready in the morning. I think it’s incredible motivation and it gives me a lot of energy. I would also use it when I would work out. I went for plenty of walks in university and without music it would have been boring. I truly am excited for this next year because I want to produce my first music video. I have been writing poetry and music since I was 12 and we would drive to my speed swimming competitions. Especially when my aunt was grouchy I would listen to music to block her out. I am going to be producing plenty of music and I look forward to producing it into videos. Xoxo ShaylaBobala

How To Speak In Public Comfortably &...

Shayla Bobala

Sometimes it can be really nerve racking to speak in public about something your really passionate for fear or being laughed at or not being agreed with, but honestly everyone is nervous they just know how to curve it with excitedly knowing that it will help them to be able to grow and do it more often. It’s just like a competition the first time is scary but it will get easier. When I use to speak publicly I would make sure to look at the wall or something that is not the direct audience so I’m not aware of how many people are in the room. I also would think about a specific word so that it would limit the noise in the room. One of my biggest tips is being able to know that your only going to be up there temporarily and that people will believe what they want to believe. It is not your job to change their minds. Focus on the positive reason for what you are doing. Obviously there are so many reasons that you could be doing public speaking but just remember to speak clearly and at a moderate pace. No one is judging you unless it’s an actual public speaking contest. If that case make sure to rehearse it over and over in front of the mirror until it’s memorized. I believe that all great leaders are taught to become great speakers. Things take time and practice. Rome wasn’t built in a day. Make sure to be confident and go and have a blast. Xoxo ShaylaBobala

It’s Okay To Say No

Shayla Bobala

Saying no is important when respecting yourself and others. I used to say yes to everything which led to resentment and anger held to the other person because I blamed them for asking me to do things I don’t want to do and I felt obligated to go and do them. You only owe yourself anything. You don’t owe anyone for anything. You have to put yourself first and realize that sacrificing your health, money, mental health is not worth it. Just remember this when your feeling blue when you say no it’s better there angry for a night if it means peace within you. It’s one of the most valuable things my counselling taught me. Xoxo ShaylaBobala

Be Honest With Yourself

Shayla Bobala

Do you ever tell yourself lies to keep yourself feeling good about what your doing. Do you find yourself convincing yourself that where you are in life is fine. You need to be honest about what it is your really want in life and what’s going to fulfill your true purpose. If that means 10 years to become a doctor or if it means that you want to create a channel with meaning and purpose and sell things. Whatever it is. You can do it anytime. No one knows how much time they have left and yet we all keep going. It’s all about working towards what you want while appreciating what you have in the process. I honestly can say that I’m happy with my job. It brings me more satisfaction everyday. If someday it doesn’t then I would re-evaluate my purpose and do something different don’t be afraid to re-evaluate your life to make yourself happy. Xoxo ShaylaBobala

Feeling Bikini Confident

Shayla Bobala

I get asked a lot how I feel good in a bikini when I’m plus size and been told I don’t have permission to because only girls that are slim should be permitted to feel good. This is not a body positive rant however I feel confident because I know that someone does appreciate my body exactly how it is and that’s the only person that matters which is me. So I’m not going to hide my physical flaws or my weight. My weight does not define my value my heart does and as long as I have a good one then I’m going to continue to love myself exactly as I am. Doesn’t mean I’m not working on improvements. But I’m going to enjoy the body I have and not punish myself while working on the one I want. Xoxo ShaylaBobala

ShoutOuts To Amazing Creators

Shayla Bobala

There are so many but here are the ones I couldn’t live without watching. It’s Likely Makeup – Sweetest girl who does makeup Pew die pie – Awesome Gamer Trisha Paytas – Controversy is fun Stargirl The Practical Witch – Psychic I enjoy Tati Westbrook – Inspirational Makeup Artist Rudy Mancuso – Funny Creator and Musician The Chatwins – Family Channel Graham Stephan – Financial Expert Project Life Mastery – Mentor in Life Anna Akana – Rad Filmaker and Musician I have plenty more favourites but these ones have truly changed my life positively Xoxo ShaylaBobala

My Favourite Skincare Product

Shayla Bobala

I have been using this Brilliance Skincare System By Duvolle and they helped sponsor a video of mine and the brushes are so fantastic. They have one for full body, face, and feet and it all comes in one set for $145 but when you use my code you get it for $43.50. My code is Shayla70 and you get 70 percent off any of their products which is incredible because they have hair and skincare sets. I’m so greatful for their product it cleans so well and is easy to clean. It’s been way better than my Clarisonic and you don’t have to pay $30 for each brush head like when you use a Clarisonic. I do really enjoy the fact that no matter the pressure it spins well. Clarisonic is more of a vibration. I really hope you try one you won’t regret it. Check it out here http://www.duvolle.com Xoxo ShaylaBobala

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