Relationship Advice

Shayla Bobala

Throughout my years of experience of being in several long term relationships of 1,2,3 years. I have gained knowledge on many things. I learned that your first love in highschool doesn’t always workout. I’ve learned that if you date someone older they can help teach you important life skills. I learned that you shouldn’t always put so much pressure on things working out forever. Some people are only around for a season. I learned that if you are broken, like I was coming from foster care that you can’t be with someone with a normal family because they won’t understand your struggles. I have dated younger, older, my age and men who were just there through a hard time in my life. I also learned that love is temporary in some people’s life and they give the love they receive from there most important people in their life. I learned that true love is patient, persistent and most important loyal. I dated a guy once who was unfaithful to his partner and they ended up getting back together but did it last no. Love that is broken up by infidelity can never truly be as special as loyal love. There is a difference between physical cheating and just talking to other people flirting. But the physical cheating is impossible to forgive and trust me on this one I tried to forgive. Love is so special because you meet someone who literally changes your whole perspective on the world. I have met my soulmate and we have struggled but at the end of the day love prevails all trials and my love was tested at extreme lengths. Truly Shaylabobala

Learning New Skills

Shayla Bobala

Hey lovelies I think that no matter what age you are this is really important I enjoyed learning how to build this site and still have lots to learn. I have also learned a few lessons this last 27 years that I think may help you. 1)Listen before talking 2)Come clean when you make a mistake 3)Learn from your mistakes 4)Try to put yourself in their shoes 5)Dont pretend to know it all 6)Learn from mentors who have what you want in life 7)Be original 8)Plan for an amazing future because your dreams won’t happen unless you plan for them to 9)Take risks that will improve your future in the next 5 to 10 years 10)Minimum wage is not going to pay you what your worth 11)Your teach others how to treat you As a youtube creator some of these are tougher to learn than others but honestly I have learned so much through the ups and downs this year that I am so glad to be able to tell you that we are super close to reaching 150K Subscribers and I am excited to be able to grow even more this next year. As each year ends I find myself getting more understanding. I don’t want to be average so I’m going to fight for a better quality of life. I hope you all have been enjoying leave a comment to tell me what you would like to know Truly ShaylaBobala

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