Feeling Bikini Confident

Shayla Bobala

I get asked a lot how I feel good in a bikini when I’m plus size and been told I don’t have permission to because only girls that are slim should be permitted to feel good. This is not a body positive rant however I feel confident because I know that someone does appreciate my body exactly how it is and that’s the only person that matters which is me. So I’m not going to hide my physical flaws or my weight. My weight does not define my value my heart does and as long as I have a good one then I’m going to continue to love myself exactly as I am. Doesn’t mean I’m not working on improvements. But I’m going to enjoy the body I have and not punish myself while working on the one I want. Xoxo ShaylaBobala

Social Media Tips

Shayla Bobala

I’m gonna focus mainly on Instagram here and YouTube which are my main ones I use daily. I also love Pinterest but I find the app easy you just follow and people follow you. Instagram requires you to upload to stories, post regularly as well as sharing on the regular. Same with YouTube I find a hack for youtube is sharing photos on the stories and making sure that you are sharing to all social media’s after you post. Also post in the community tab. Share information your videos so that if the don’t get notifications as often they will definitely get them on a different media. I know that daily uploads are very important when your first starting out. As you grow you can post 30 videos and take 10 days off a month by doing two a day some days and then one some days. I am really excited for this years growth. Instagram has grown from 1000 followers to 20.6K Followers in a year and YouTube went from 75K to 152K in a year. I also know that doing live-streaming is important to show that you genuinely want to get to know your audience and connect with them on the regular. High quality equipment is not as important as genuinely caring about your audience. You can do this only on a phone or iPad. So don’t feel discouraged. Another hack of mine is Social blade it helps you see future estimations of subscribers and views which can motivate you harder. Then more you grow the better the futures growth. If there was one piece of advice I’d give that really was a game changer it would be to make sure that your recent video is on the featured video on your channel right when it uploads. Xoxo ShaylaBobala

ShoutOuts To Amazing Creators

Shayla Bobala

There are so many but here are the ones I couldn’t live without watching. It’s Likely Makeup – Sweetest girl who does makeup Pew die pie – Awesome Gamer Trisha Paytas – Controversy is fun Stargirl The Practical Witch – Psychic I enjoy Tati Westbrook – Inspirational Makeup Artist Rudy Mancuso – Funny Creator and Musician The Chatwins – Family Channel Graham Stephan – Financial Expert Project Life Mastery – Mentor in Life Anna Akana – Rad Filmaker and Musician I have plenty more favourites but these ones have truly changed my life positively Xoxo ShaylaBobala

My Opinion On Morphe Makeup

Shayla Bobala

I enjoy Jeffree Star products but they don’t really count as Morphe since he created it. All of the products I have received have been subpar. I do like the Jacyln Hill Brush Collection and her main palette. But those are pretty much it the red rouge lipstick set I got was really smudgey and needed to be reapplied 3 times for full affect so I would say it’s kind of drugstore like makeup. I think every company has good and bad products and some make certain things better. But the quality of stand alone makeup products from morphe like the brushes and the lipsticks just don’t really have that lustre to them. I like everything about the palettes except the old plastic packaging is not as nice. So I would give this brand a 50 percent good and 50 percent bad review. They make things better for influencers product launches. Xoxo ShaylaBobala

My Worst Tinder Date

Shayla Bobala

I went out with this guy trying to get over my ex and actually it was pretty sketchy. He took me in his truck over a lake and almost drove into the lake. Then he took me back to his place because he said he was renovating it. The place was so dirty and then he stepped on my coffee and my hand. Then he said sorry and then he asked if he could kiss me and I thought maybe a kiss on the cheek wouldn’t be so bad so I let him. He then got on the floor in front of my and spread my legs and I said no that’s not my intention. This was after he started kissing my neck. Then I fucked up and said the reason was because I am not looking for a hookup. He started getting silently violent and was pacing in the kitchen. He got so angry. I was really nervous and said his place wasn’t clean enough because of the construction and he got mad and then I said I would call a cab and don’t even offer to take me home. I was broke at the time and had to beg him to take me home after he tried to rape me. I had to push him off and then he angry said fine and took me home. I ran away from his truck and started crying I definitely learned my lesson. Xoxo ShaylaBobala

Why I Came Back To Facebook

Shayla Bobala

This app was literally the Center piece for all copycat social media platforms. I’m incredibly grateful for this site. I came back because I was missing the connection to people on their that are only on their and no other social media’s. It’s a trusted site with a lot of different things to offer. You can message people who aren’t your friends and be able to reconnect to long lost friends. I also like to see the groups and helps connect pet friendly rentals and you can even sell your house on there. I am very happy to connect with any one of you who’s a reader of my posts on the regular let’s connect my page is Shaylabobala Xoxo ShaylaBobala

Cancun Mexico Travel Packing List

Shayla Bobala

A list to get things for Mexico 1. Sunscreen (6 bottles) 2. 3 pairs or swimming trunks 3. 3 dress shirts 4. 1 pair of pants that are nice 5. Pair of sandals 6. Pair of runners 7. Hats for Beach 8. Tank tops for shayla 9. First aid kit 10. Standards medication 11. 3 bottles of alovera 12. Dill pickle chips 13. Rose cream Nivea 14. Pjs 15. Lotion 16. New good brush 17. Beach bag 18. A few bras 19. Deodorant 20. Laundry bag 21. $1000 in pesos =68 Canadian Dollars 22. Dresses 23. Suit 24. Camera 25. Charger 26. Toothbrush 27. Makeup that won’t melt 28. Brush 29. Straightner Xoxo ShaylaBobala

Can you still grow on YouNow

Shayla Bobala

The simple answer is yes but it takes a lot to get noticed at first and you have to guest people to become partnered. The biggest problem is people trying to go nude when you guest them and then you would get banned for what they did. I had it happen to me once a fan did it. So I would say you can you just have to make sure they aren’t going to get you in trouble make sure they have a good standing. It’s also great way to get to know people and build up friendships. If your lonely it’s a great way to talk about anything. I also enjoy connecting directly and supporting other creators this way. I started on younow when I built up my YouTube channel and it lets you use copyrighted music in your streams so it’s fun that way. Xoxo ShaylaBobala

My Favourite Skincare Product

Shayla Bobala

I have been using this Brilliance Skincare System By Duvolle and they helped sponsor a video of mine and the brushes are so fantastic. They have one for full body, face, and feet and it all comes in one set for $145 but when you use my code you get it for $43.50. My code is Shayla70 and you get 70 percent off any of their products which is incredible because they have hair and skincare sets. I’m so greatful for their product it cleans so well and is easy to clean. It’s been way better than my Clarisonic and you don’t have to pay $30 for each brush head like when you use a Clarisonic. I do really enjoy the fact that no matter the pressure it spins well. Clarisonic is more of a vibration. I really hope you try one you won’t regret it. Check it out here http://www.duvolle.com Xoxo ShaylaBobala

Thoughtful Gift Ideas

Shayla Bobala

I really think the value in a gift doesn’t lie in its cost it lies in the value and thoughtfulness that went with it. I find gifts are always better when you need it and get lots of use out of them. I have chosen gifts for my partner that are thoughtful as well as needed. Like a winter jacket, underwear, clothes, pjs, sweets and I will be getting him a gift into next year on Boxing Day. I’m so excited to be able to spend Christmas with him for another year and have amazing dinner at the casino. Have a merry Christmas tell me what your getting for yourself and others ❤️ Shayla Bobala

%d bloggers like this: