The Importance of Music

Shayla Bobala

Music has impacted my life so greatly. Whether it’s good oldies that sing about true love and heartbreak or just a good old musical I truly use music to express how I feel. I feel it’s so much easier to connect with others through music. It’s like the musician speaks for you. I was bullied a lot in Highschool and I had an iPod when they first where launched. I literally always had one ear in all the time and would walk around with music in my ear to avoid socializing. I really enjoyed jamming out. If the bullies would get bad enough I would go into the bathroom and listen to music in there. I think the music kept me alive through those years. I also remember using music to help me get ready in the morning. I think it’s incredible motivation and it gives me a lot of energy. I would also use it when I would work out. I went for plenty of walks in university and without music it would have been boring. I truly am excited for this next year because I want to produce my first music video. I have been writing poetry and music since I was 12 and we would drive to my speed swimming competitions. Especially when my aunt was grouchy I would listen to music to block her out. I am going to be producing plenty of music and I look forward to producing it into videos. Xoxo ShaylaBobala

The 8 Income Streams

Shayla Bobala

There are so many ways to make money but these are some you may not have thought of before. It’s important to remember that you can make a living from more than just working a typical 9 – 5 job working minimum wage. 1) There is passive income where you make a video or a blog post and you continue to make ad revenue and sponsorships off your previous works also writing a ebook is considered passive income because you don’t have to do anything but watch the sales come in. Movies and films too because they bring in revenue without having to do more work. 2) Working a commission job in sales either online or in person. It takes a lot of work because you have to follow up with people and you get rejected a lot. I really think the best commission job is being a real estate agent. 3) Then there is profit income from buying and then selling them for more than you paid. 4) There is interest income from lending money. 5) There is Dividend income from owning stocks and having growth but it’s a gamble. 6) You can make royalties by letting others use your music or films in theirs. 7) There are also Capital gains when your assets like a home, vehicle or property goes up in value and helps increase your net worth. The value of everything you own. 8) There is Rental Income from renting out your property or an apartment building. Xoxo ShaylaBobala

Should You Choose Xbox or PS4

Shayla Bobala

I think that this depends on what features you enjoy and which community your apart of as well as if you like mixer or twitch. Live streaming is easier to YouTube with a PS4 with direct access but mixer also does a better job with restreaming to mutiple platforms. You can still stream to YouTube but you have to use the restream app. I don’t really miss haveing a PS4 I always was a loyal fan of Xbox I currently have an Xbox S 500Gb but earlier in the year I had a 1TB PS4 and I don’t like how games are not reverse compatibility. I prefer Xbox community as well because I feel that the gamer score is gunner because of the avatars and features. There are more games for Xbox. I miss the kinect feature. Xoxo ShaylaBobala

How To Speak In Public Comfortably &...

Shayla Bobala

Sometimes it can be really nerve racking to speak in public about something your really passionate for fear or being laughed at or not being agreed with, but honestly everyone is nervous they just know how to curve it with excitedly knowing that it will help them to be able to grow and do it more often. It’s just like a competition the first time is scary but it will get easier. When I use to speak publicly I would make sure to look at the wall or something that is not the direct audience so I’m not aware of how many people are in the room. I also would think about a specific word so that it would limit the noise in the room. One of my biggest tips is being able to know that your only going to be up there temporarily and that people will believe what they want to believe. It is not your job to change their minds. Focus on the positive reason for what you are doing. Obviously there are so many reasons that you could be doing public speaking but just remember to speak clearly and at a moderate pace. No one is judging you unless it’s an actual public speaking contest. If that case make sure to rehearse it over and over in front of the mirror until it’s memorized. I believe that all great leaders are taught to become great speakers. Things take time and practice. Rome wasn’t built in a day. Make sure to be confident and go and have a blast. Xoxo ShaylaBobala

20 Self Care Ideas

Shayla Bobala

1) Take a Bath with bubbles and Champagne 2) Do Yoga with Calming Music 3) Meditate on good things you want in the future 4) Go watch the stars outside 5) Start A Blog and journal daily 6) Binge Watch Netflix 7) Setup a Christmas Tree 8) Play with your Dog or Cat 9) Dance to Your Favourite Songs 10) Make a TikTok that makes you laugh 11) Take Yourself on a Date to your favourite restaurant 12) Organize your Bathroom 13) Give Yourself a Pedicure 14) Put a hair mask in & a face mask 15) Write a Book 16) Listen to an audiobook 17) Workout using Hiit 18) Give yourself a massage 19) Make yourself some Hot Chocolate 20) Go Swimming Xoxo ShaylaBobala

My Favourite Board Games

Shayla Bobala

So I literally have to tell you about these because it’s been on my mind. I love these games will get get rid of any boredom. 1) Scrabble 2) Monopoly 3) Cribbage 4) Twister 5) Snakes and Ladders 6) Marble Stars 7) Yahtzee I hope you have an awesome weekend playing games Xoxo ShaylaBobala

Feelings on Tattoos & Ideas

Shayla Bobala

I got my first tattoo in 2017 on Valentines Day because I was sick of waiting for the one. I’m want to get another tattoo but I’m waiting for Youtube milestones. I am excited to reach more this next year. I want to get a mermaid and I would also like to get a quote. The quote is it I sent about how hard you hit it’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. It’s from Rocky and I really love it. I also have a few more ideas I have saved from my Pinterest. I enjoy moths and butterflies and I enjoy peacocks. I love sea creatures too. Xoxo ShaylaBobala

How To Get A 800 Credit Score

Shayla Bobala

#1 Have Under 30% Credit Used up and never go over it always pay that back every month #2 Have 3 types of credit like a financed phone, credit card, and a house or a line of credit to build up credit #3 Have a good relationship with lenders #4 Always make your payments on time #5 Pay more than the minimum #6 Always Raise your limit every second year to raise your utilization #7 Use financing before paying things right off as long as you can afford it #8 Make sure to pay using credit and pay it back within a few weeks to get points that can be used in exchange for cash back or travel #9 Pay off higher credit interest rates first always #10 Make sure to be smart about unsecured debt #11 Student loans hurt your credit pay them back ASAP That is how I got mine up when I was young with no credit at all Xoxo ShaylaBobala

It’s Okay To Say No

Shayla Bobala

Saying no is important when respecting yourself and others. I used to say yes to everything which led to resentment and anger held to the other person because I blamed them for asking me to do things I don’t want to do and I felt obligated to go and do them. You only owe yourself anything. You don’t owe anyone for anything. You have to put yourself first and realize that sacrificing your health, money, mental health is not worth it. Just remember this when your feeling blue when you say no it’s better there angry for a night if it means peace within you. It’s one of the most valuable things my counselling taught me. Xoxo ShaylaBobala

Be Honest With Yourself

Shayla Bobala

Do you ever tell yourself lies to keep yourself feeling good about what your doing. Do you find yourself convincing yourself that where you are in life is fine. You need to be honest about what it is your really want in life and what’s going to fulfill your true purpose. If that means 10 years to become a doctor or if it means that you want to create a channel with meaning and purpose and sell things. Whatever it is. You can do it anytime. No one knows how much time they have left and yet we all keep going. It’s all about working towards what you want while appreciating what you have in the process. I honestly can say that I’m happy with my job. It brings me more satisfaction everyday. If someday it doesn’t then I would re-evaluate my purpose and do something different don’t be afraid to re-evaluate your life to make yourself happy. Xoxo ShaylaBobala

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